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How To Give The Best Blow Jobs He’ll Ever Have

Confession: I love giving a partner a good blow job.

I know some women hate performing oral sex on a guy, and I get it—having someone’s junk thrusting inside your mouth (and ugh, the annoying head push!) isn’t everyone’s idea of fun. But to me, there’s nothing more empowering and exciting than to have full control of over a penis—and by effect, the man attached to it.

“Men love blow jobs because the act feels like sex, but it’s a very different experience—they get to relax and receive and just enjoy what’s happening in front of them,” says Vanessa Marin, a certified sex therapist in L.A. (who makes me feel a lot less anti-feminist, I must say).

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1. Show enthusiasm about giving him a blow job.

By far the number one rule for giving good head is acting like you want to be giving head.

“The biggest complaint I hear from male clients about blow jobs has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with their partner’s enthusiasm about it,” Marin says. “Men will have a great time if they know their partner is enjoying it.” (Aww.)

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That’s not to say you should pretend you like doing something in the bedroom if you straight-up don’t. (On that vein, never do something you’re not comfortable with a sexual partner.) But if you’re going to consider going down a guy—which, if you’re reading this article, it seems that you are—the best thing you can bring to the BJ party is a good attitude.

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A few ways to show your enthusiasm:

Make eye contact. Don’t stare at him the entire time without blinking (creepy), but do take conscious breaks to switch your gaze from his penis to his eyes, taking in all of his facial cues. (This is also a great opp to bat your lashes and “smize,” you sexpot.)

Tell him how turned on you are. You know how you can get self-conscious when a partner goes down on you? Yeah, so can he. So compliment how hard he is in your mouth and how excited that’s making you. Or be straightforward: “I love how your penis feels in my mouth.” Simple, but effective.

Ask him what he wants. Your asking for live feedback shows that you care and want to give him the best experience possible. Ask “How does this feel?” right before you put your mouth back on him, or “Is this wet enough for you?” midway through. One question not to ask: “Dude, are you close yet?”

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2. Bring your hands into the mix.

A blow job might count as oral sex, but that doesn’t mean your mouth has to do all the work. “I like to think of the mouth as providing wetness and your hands as providing tightness,” says Marin.

If your jaw starts to feel sore or tired a few minutes into the job, you’re likely suctioning too hard with your mouth. So shift some of the work to your hands, counting on them for pressure.

Here’s your basic stroke once you’ve warmed up a bit:

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Wrap your dominant hand around his shaft, then add your mouth.

Connect your hand to your lips—as in, press your index finger and thumb (which are making an O sign) against your lips and keep them sealed there.

Move your hand-plus-lips up and down his penis.

If he’s well-endowed (go, girl), you can keep your mouth in one place and move your wet hand up and down separately.

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